Sunday, March 28, 2010
Supporting Incarcerated Women
U.S. Maternal Death Rates on the Rise
6.6/100,000 women in 1987
13.3/100,000 women in 2006
The U.S. is worse than 40 other countries including most industrialized nations
Native American and African American women who live in poverty and are uninsured
Amnesty International reports that these women are "put at risk due to neglect"
Best countries: Ireland, Bosnia & Herzegovina, Italy and Greece
Women Deliver conference in Washington D.C. brainstormed about these issues
Taken up by Hillary Rodham Clinton and Sarah Brown (UK)
Amnesty International is pushing President Obama to set up a maternal health office to
A "near miss" means that these women came close to dying, but were rescued
1:3 African American and Native American women are without antenatal (prenatal) care
This is twice the rate than the World Health Organization recommends
Risk of death is 3x greater with C-section than with vaginal delivery
Minorities account for 50% of the 1:5 rate
Most common causes of death: hemorrhage, deep vein thrombosis (clots), and underlying
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
V-day in Bangladesh
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Helping Male SA Survivors
http://community.feministing.com/2010/03/how-can-i-help-a-male-sex-assa.html#comments
Sexual Assault on College Campuses Takes the Media Spotlight...
SAPAC staff and students have noticed that several news reports have been commenting on the ineffective way that sexual assault is being handled on college campuses across the US. Here are some of the programs and articles:
NPR Report on Talk of The Nation from December 3rd, 2009:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=121057891
Which is part of a bigger "special series" that NPR is doing:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=124073905
and most recently, The Washington Post:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/12/AR2010031201792.html
Most of these reference this study by the The Center for Public Integrity:
http://www.publicintegrity.org/investigations/campus_assault/
What are some ways that we could use this media attention to educate our campus community? Do you feel UofM handles sexual assault well? What could we be doing better?
-Amy B.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Sunday, March 14, 2010
CBS rejects gay-oriented ad yet again
Hilary Duff and Wanda Sykes recently fronted a new ad campaign to address the use of derogatory and homophobic vernacular, specifically with regards to the saying, “that’s so gay.” The Think Before You Speak public service announcements seek to educate adolescents’ about the negative impact that their language can have on others. Unfortunately, CBS refused to air the public service announcements during the Super Bowl. This is the second consecutive year that CBS has rejected a gay-oriented advertisement, and yet they accepted a pro-life advertisement that ran during the Super Bowl this year. Check out the ads below and share your thoughts.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVicCD8FmMs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrJrw5ZZfRU
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Attorney General Coming to U of M!
Please see the following link for more info!
http://blogs.usdoj.gov/blog/archives/609
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
typical college rapist
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=124272157&sc=emaf
-E.D.
Friday, March 5, 2010
NPR Investigation on Campus Rapes
Thursday, February 25, 2010
SafeHouse Center's Upcoming Training
Here are the training dates:
Fri, March 12, 2010 - 5:30pm - 9:30pm
Sat, March 13, 2010 - 9am - 6pm
Sun, March 14, 2010 - 9am - 6pm
Fri, March 26, 2010 - 5:30pm - 9:30pm
Sat, March 27, 2010 - 9am - 6pm
Sun, March 28, 2010 - 2pm - 6pm
For more information about how to get involved, please visit www.safehousecenter.org!
-Crosby
We Need More Men in the Movement!
This post quotes Jaclyn Friedman, Jessica Valenti's co-editor of Yes Means Yes. The post's picture really speaks to me...
"Failed Justice Leaves Rape Victim Nowhere To Turn"
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
"Blaming the Victim, Princeton Edition"
An op-ed piece was included in the Daily Princetonian on February 22, 2010 titled "The real 'Sex on a Saturday night'". Written by a Princeton freshman, it explains why the author believes women are at fault for their own rapes. The author uses a friend's personal experience as an example, and "evidence", for her article. The article is filled with blatant, disgusting victim-blaming.
The blog "Jezebel" has a great summary and discussion of the article.
Experiencing Rape Does Not Equal Getting Your Car Stolen
Wow.
http://thinkprogress.org/2010/02/18/kansas-rape-auto/
Monday, February 22, 2010
Justin Lookadoo.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
SAPAC in the Daily
http://www.michigandaily.com/content/greeks-raise-awareness-sexual-assault-community
Jessica Valenti Event--Huge Success!
Monday, February 15, 2010
Comedy Not So Comedic
Sunday, February 14, 2010
The New Math on Campus?
After you read the New York Times article and develop your own opinions, I would also like to direct you towards popular news media blog Gawker's response to the article. Where many of us would probably label the Times' article as guilty of creating a "crisis" where no crisis exists as well as extremely misogynist, the Gawker correspondent argues the opposite: he claims that the article is misandrist (a concept which I personally do not believe even exists in the context of privilege, but you know, I guess arguing that misandry exists is the nature of privilege! Score one for Feminism 101!)
There are obviously a lot of people who feel very strongly about this topic, as evidenced by the over 150 comments in response to the New York Times article thus far. The Gawker response to the original article has generated even more comments than that. From my observations, the feedback around this topic is pretty thought-provoking and sometimes frustrating; however, it is still illustrative of some of the issues and misconceptions that most directly affect our cause.
Links:
New York Times Article: "The New Math On Campus"
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/07/fashion/07campus.html?ref=fashion&pagewanted=all
Gawker Article: "The Dance-Card Problem: College Girls Outnumber College Guys, Misandrist Chaos Ensues"
http://gawker.com/5466193/the-dance+card-problem-college-girls-outnumber-college-guys-misandrist-chaos-ensues
Extra Credit: Jessica Valenti's "Speechifying: So-called hook up culture and the anti-feminists who love it"
http://www.feministing.com/archives/013806.html#more
P.S. - While this has nothing to do with the actual article that appears in the New York Times, as an additional point, I would just like you all to note the section of the paper that the article appears in: Fashion & Style. This is yet another example of the long-standing news media tradition of relegating any article that is at all related to women to the frivolous and seemingly unimportant "Style" section. If you've never noticed this before, I guarantee that you'll start noticing it now -- a lot of reputable publications do it. Because of course the only section in the newspaper that us silly wimminz care about is "Fashion & Style"!
Friday, February 12, 2010
stalking on 30 rock
Clip at Hulu: http://www.hulu.com/watch/127671/30-rock-anna-howard-shaw-day
"High"lights from the episode:
"That's a real problem in the celebrity community. But if Beyonce would just answer one of my letters, I'd stop trying to break into her house." - Tracy, on stalkers
"I always knew it would end one day. I just always thought it would be me in the trunk of a rental car." - Jenna
"Wow, Avery Jessup, she's hot. She was on Maxim's I'd Rape Her 100." - Liz
The episode downplays stalking flattering, about wanted/positive attention, about love. It pokes fun at and makes light of a serious problem. (And it, apparently, got the second highest ratings of an episode so far this season.)
Maybe the writers could have benefited from seeing one of SAPAC's Stalking Awareness Month t-shirts.
It's not a joke
It's not romantic
It's not OK
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Board Not Vandalized!
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Jessica Valenti is Coming to Ann Arbor SOON!
Monday, February 8, 2010
Rape Culture
Vandalized Diag Board
Military Physicians Required To Carry Plan B
Friday, February 5, 2010
Sign a Petition Supporting the International Violence Against Women Act
Monday, February 1, 2010
CALLING ALL ARTISTS
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Juvenile Facilities
For those that are interested, here's a link to an article describing the current situation in juvenile facilities, where more than 10 percent of juveniles report some form of sexual abuse. Here's a group of people we don't normally think about protecting. But this is out of control. They have rights too, though. NOBODY deserves to not have control.
-Stephanie K
Fighting what are called "Crimes of Passion" in Haiti
By Jessica Ravitz, CNN
- Three leaders in the Haitian women's movement are confirmed dead, victims of quake
- They gave women voices, fought against violence and made rape in Haiti a crime
- Friends, including Eve Ensler of "The Vagina Monologues," share memories
- Amid chaos after earthquake, concerns rise about protecting women and girls
"One returned to her Haitian roots, to give voice to women, honor their stories and shape their futures.
Another urged women to pack a courtroom in Haiti, where she succeeded in getting a guilty verdict against a man who battered his wife.
A third joined the others and helped change the law to make rape, long a political weapon in Haiti, a punishable crime.
Myriam Merlet, Magalie Marcelin and Anne Marie Coriolan, founders of three of the country's most important advocacy organizations working on behalf of women and girls, are confirmed dead -- victims of last week's 7.0 earthquake.
And their deaths have left members of the women's movement, Haitian and otherwise, reeling."Words are missing for me. I lost a large chunk of my personal, political and social life," Carolle Charles wrote in an e-mail to colleagues. The Haitian-born sociology professor at Baruch College in New York is chair of Dwa Fanm (meaning "Women's Rights" in Creole), a Brooklyn-based advocacy group. These women "were my friends, my colleagues and my associates. I cannot envision going to Haiti without seeing them."
Myriam Merlet was until recently the chief of staff of Haiti's Ministry for Gender and the Rights of Women, established in 1995, and still served as a top adviser. She died after being trapped beneath her collapsed home, Charles said. She was 53.
Merlet, an author as well as an activist, fled Haiti in the 1970s. She studied in Canada, steeping herself in economics, women's issues, feminist theory and political sociology.In the mid-1980s, she returned to her homeland. In "Walking on Fire: Haitian Women's Stories of Survival and Resistance," published in 2001, she contributed an essay, "The More People Dream," in which she described what brought her back.
"While I was abroad I felt the need to find out who I was and where my soul was. I chose to be a Haitian woman," she wrote. "We're a country in which three-fourths of the people can't read and don't eat properly. I'm an integral part of the situation. I am not in Canada in a black ghetto, or an extraterrestrial from outer space. I am a Haitian woman. I don't mean to say that I am responsible for the problems. But still, as a Haitian woman, I must make an effort so that all together we can extricate ourselves from them."
--Myriam Merlet, in her essay "The More People Dream"
She was a founder of Enfofamn, an organization that raises awareness about women through media, collects stories and works to honor their names. Among her efforts, she set out to get streets named after Haitian women who came before her, Charles said.
Dubbed a "Vagina Warrior," she was remembered Tuesday by her friend Eve Ensler, the award-winning playwright and force behind V-day, a global movement to end violence against women and girls.
"She was very bold," said Ensler, who at Merlet's insistence brought her play "The Vagina Monologues" to Haiti and helped establish safe houses for women in Port-au-Prince and Cap Haitien. "She had an incredible vision of what was possible for Haitian women, and she lifted their spirits. ... And we had such a wonderful time. I remember her dancing in the streets of New Orleans and just being so alive."
Magalie Marcelin, a lawyer and actress who appeared in films and on stage, established Kay Fanm, a women's rights organization that deals with domestic violence, offers services and shelter to women and makes microcredits, or loans, available to women working in markets, said Charles, the chair of Dwa Fanm.
Charles remembered a visit to Haiti about two years ago when Marcelin, believed to be in her mid-50s, called seeking help. Hoping to deflect the political clout of a defendant in court, she asked for women to come out in droves and pack the courtroom. Charles watched as the man on trial was convicted for battering his wife.
Her death has been reported through various media outlets, and was confirmed to CNN by Carribbean Radio Television based in Port-au-Prince. Her own daughter helped dig her body out from rubble in the aftermath of the quake, Charles said she learned when she got the call from Marcelin's cousin.
In an interview last year with the Haitian Times, Marcelin spoke of the image of a drum that adorned public awareness stickers.
"It's very symbolic in the Haitian cultural imagination," Marcelin said, according to the Haitian Times report. "The sound of the drum is the sound of freedom, it's the sound of slaves breaking with slavery."
With Merlet, Anne Marie Coriolan, 53, served as a top adviser to the women's rights ministry.
Coriolan, who died when her boyfriend's home collapsed, was the founder of Solidarite Fanm Ayisyen (Solidarity with Haitian Women, or SOFA), which Charles described as an advocacy and services organization.
Her daughter, Wani Thelusmon Coriolan, said in Haiti children bear only their father's surname, but her mother insisted on keeping her maiden name and making sure her two children shared it, too.
"She said my dad was not the only one who created me. She was involved, too," her 24-year-old daughter, who lives and is studying in Montreal, Quebec, said with a laugh.
Even though Wani and her brother no longer live in Haiti (he is in Paris, France), she said her mother was determined to make sure they were proud of their homeland.
"She loved her country. She never stopped believing in Haiti. She said that when you have a dream you have to fight for it," Wani said. "She wanted women to have equal rights. She wanted women to hold their heads high."
Coriolan was a political organizer who helped bring rape -- "an instrument of terror and war," Charles said -- to the forefront of Haitian courts.
Before 2005, rapes in Haiti were treated as nothing more than "crimes of passion," Charles explained. That changed because of the collective efforts of these women activists -- and others they inspired.
--Eve Ensler, on her friend Myriam Merlet
With the three leaders gone, there is concern about the future of Haiti's women and girls. Even with all that's been achieved, the struggle for equality and against violence remains enormous.
The chaos that's taken over the devastated nation heightens those worries, said Taina Bien-Aimé, the executive director of Equality Now, a human rights organization dedicated to women.
Before the disaster struck last week, a survey of Haitian women and girls showed an estimated 72 percent had been raped, according to study done by Kay Fanm. And at least 40 percent of the women surveyed were victims of domestic violence, Bien-Aimé said.
And humanitarian emergencies have been linked to increased violence and exploitation in the past, she said.
"From where we stand," Bien-Aimé wrote in an e-mail, "the most critical and urgent issue is what, if any, contingencies the relief/humanitarian agencies are putting in place not only to ensure that women have easy access to food, water and medical care, but to guarantee their protection."
Concerned women in the New York area plan to gather Wednesday to strategize their next steps, Ensler said.
And while they will certainly keep mourning, she and the others are hopeful that Haitian women, inspired by these fallen heros and leaders, will forge ahead -- keeping their fight and legacies alive."
-Stephanie K
Not So Funny...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozmfdeA5shI
I know that the girl is jokingly acting disapproving and offended, but clearly there's supposed to be some humor in the sexual innuendos and references to sexual assault. It's just sad that society is still allowing people to minimize the pain of people that are affected in one way or another, whether directly or indirectly, by sexual assault. This stuff is still going on and...It's. Just. Pathetic.
-Stephanie K
Monday, January 25, 2010
Volunteer Continuing Education
Stalking Awareness Month T-shirts
Saturday, January 23, 2010
NPA Continuing Ed: Stalking
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Bystanders Don't Try to Stop Rape-Toledo, OH
Check out this link to an article from the Toledo Blade.
Friday, January 15, 2010
COME MAKE T-SHIRTS FOR THE CLOTHESLINE PROJECT
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Illinois Man Pleads Guilty to Stalking ESPN's Erin Andrews
As a female sportscaster, Erin Andrews is faced with a struggle against sexism and misogyny that male sportscasters do not experience. Andrews is now devoted to advocating for changes in the hotel industry to protect female travelers from becoming victims of stalking in the future. She says, “I live in hotels because of my job, and every time I check in, I look around, constantly thinking he is there.” Victims of stalking are forced to live their lives in fear, and this is something Andrews is dedicated to putting an end to. “I have a responsibility to other women,” she says. “If I back down or shy away, what kind of message does that send to other women and other guys who may be doing this?” We all have the opportunity to work with Erin Andrews and support the many victims of stalking this January. Stalking is not a joke, and it is important for everyone to understand the horrors that it entails. The full story can be found here: http://bitchmagazine.org/post/illinois-man-pleads-guilty-to-stalking-espns-erin-andrews
Friday, December 18, 2009
UPCOMING VOLUNTEER TRAINING DATES
For anyone who is interested, here are the dates for SAPAC's winter training.
Thursday, 1/21
Saturday, 1/23
Sunday, 1/24
Thursday, 1/28
Saturday, 1/30
Sunday, 1/31
Applications are @ www.umich.edu/~sapac
Friday, December 11, 2009
NPA Quoted in the Michigan Daily
Just wanted to make point out that an NPA volunteer is quoted in one of the articles in today's issue of the Michigan Daily!
Check it out!
http://www.michigandaily.com/content/underreporting-and-silences-sexual-assault-campus-raising-issue?page=0,0
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
SAPAC & Relay For Life
NPA Continuing Ed: Slavery Still Exists
On December 4th 2009, police in
Human rights activists believe the Mexican police knew about the abductions since June, but considered it to have a POSITIVE effect on the city because it was “a way of cleaning vagrants off the streets”. Such roundups are not uncommon to the area as part of what they call a “social cleansing” campaign.
Slavery and human trafficking are not merely aspects of the past. People in
What is the point of law enforcement if they only reinforce what those in power want?
5 Unnecessary Deaths?
was recently arrested for the slayings of 11 women.
I happened upon this story that really upset me,
http://blog.cleveland.com/metro/2009/12/grand_jury_
indicts_anthony_sow.html.To summarize it quickly, a women
named Gladys Wade ran out of Sowell's house, bleeding
she had escaped being strangled and
raped. All of the neighbors refused to let her use their cell phones,
However, she ended up chasing
down a cop car, and they took her to the hospital where
she was treated and received stitches.
seen as a viable source, and they didn't investigate even though
Sowell was convicted of attempted rape and
robbery in 1990. Only after another rape complaint, did the
police investigate him, only to find the decomposing bodies
of 11 women in his backyard and in his crawl
space, 5 of which are thought to have been killed after
Wade filed her complaint to the police.
the police believed and followed through on the obvious assault
and attempted rape of Wade. Would these 5 women have been
saved? I believe that yes, these 5 women were killed by
a man that could have been stopped if
the police had simply believed Wade. This case shows
the injustices facing women in the
criminal justice system. The only reason we know about this
specific fall through of the police
is because there were extremely negative consequences that
followed. If this man hadn't been
a serial killer, but a gym teacher or a friend,
how would we know that a women who was
raped wasn't believed by the police?
changed. Rape is a crime and
needs to be treated and investigated like one.
Monday, December 7, 2009
NPA Continuing Ed: Sex Slaves in Suburbia
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/2009/11/25/dnt.woman.sex.trade.wjla?iref=allsearch
These women were promised a life of education and better work in the United States if they came over from Ukraine. Instead, they were forced to be strippers at Cheetahs in Detroit and sexually assaulted by their captors.
I was surprised about how the lawyer for the men responded. He said the men would not deny laundering the money the women made and were forced to give them but the fact that the women were held against their will and sexually assaulted was false. He claimed they could have left the club they were working at any time and they were not barricaded into their apartment and could have left there at any time. He seems to be ignoring the fact that the men took the women's documents and had threatened their families in their home countries.
The women's attorney, as I was told, was on campus last year and talked at one of the PE events. It is nice to hear her support of the women's story at a time when the men's lawyer can be so uneducated about the methods of control these men used to keep these women working for them.
What do you think about the existence of sex trafficking and sex slaver going on in the United States?
-Gretchen
Friday, December 4, 2009
Twilight/New Moon--Innocent Love Story or Dating Violence?
I realize that the story is fictional, especially since vampires do not exist in the real world, but this does not mean that adolescent girls are not influenced by Bella and Edward's relationship; I know that a million and one girls out there now want an Edward to call their own. And if Edward is controlling, overly protective, jealous, threatening, etc. is that what young girls are now looking for in a partner? All in all, the Twilight books and movies romanticize behaviors that are characteristic of dating violence, which further promotes an acceptance of relationship abuse. Not only is this disturbing, it is scary to think that one book or movie has the power to influence a generation's views on dating values and norms for the better or worse.
What are your thoughts?
Check out the blog, as well as the author's follow-up post at: http://kar3ning.livejournal.com/545639.html
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
“Boy” Toys versus “Girl” Toys
Upon venturing from my home in the early hours of Friday, November 27, or “Black Friday”, as the day after Thanksgiving have been so appropriately named, I was met with a vision at my local Toys ‘R Us store that was more disturbing than the hundreds of parents fighting to take advantage of the huge sales and markdowns on holiday presents. The store had been divided into two segments – “Boy World” and “Girl World”. “Boy World” was filled with toy cars, action figures, and sporting goods. “Girl World” was a pink wonderland of pastel colors, princesses, dolls, and stuffed animals. The message was clear; certain toys are for boys, and certain toys are for girls.
Defining such gendered expectations in the world of children’s playthings is problematic in that it only serves to “other” those who may differ from what is expected. Nevermind if you are a boy who enjoys playing with dolls or a girl who likes doing tricks on her skateboard. By labeling some types of toys as “for boys only” and others “for girls only”, stores like Toys ‘R Us are conforming to hegemonic gender roles. Further, by pushing these gender stereotypes, children who may be unsure of their gender identity are being completely ignored and further alienated.
And just to point out, the gendering of certain consumer products doesn’t stop after childhood. Plenty of objects marketed to adults are gendered, too. Cell phones, cameras, computers, even earplugs are constantly being released in pink versions designed to appeal to women. Oftentimes, these products “designed especially for women” will come in smaller versions of the original product with less features and “dumbed down” instructions. To appeal to women, advertisers seems to be following the “shrink it and pink it” mantra. If you’re interested in seeing examples of this blatant marketing practice, check out these articles:
http://contexts.org/socimages/2009/01/21/pink-earplugs-for-your-beauty-sleep/
http://www.avclub.com/articles/girls-like-to-look-at-pink-while-contacting-the-de,28182/
http://blog.laptopmag.com/why-i-dont-want-a-pink-laptop-for-valentines-day-or-ever
- Katey Sill
Monday, November 30, 2009
NPA Cont Ed
Reported Rapes Reach 20-Year Low
By Bonnie Erbe, Thomas Jefferson Street blog
Rapes reported nationwide are at a 20-year low, according to new FBI figures showing close to 89,000 women reported being raped in 2008, down by almost one third (30 percent) since 1992.
Obviously this is news that deserves to be cheered. And most researchers are cheering it. The majority of experts credit the drop to changes in the criminal justice system and more widespread use of DNA evidence. One would hope that means rape is now a much tougher crime to deny responsibility for, or to get away with false denials.
Meanwhile, victims' rights advocates add that prosecution of rape cases is taken much more seriously than it was in the past. They also say victim-blaming is passé (as in, "She wore a short skirt and walked down a dark alley alone at night, so she deserved it.") The hope is that these changes have inspired women to be more likely to report rape crimes to police or military authorities.
There's only one possible flaw in this logic. Criminologists insist we will never really know just how many rapes go unreported each year. So the long-odd possibility exists that rapes may actually be increasing even though reported rapes are dropping. Let's hope that's not the case.
I love to hear that we're moving in the right direction, but what this really brings me to think is how long until we can live in a society in which these crimes are no longer a part of life? We shouldn't have to celebrate the fact that reported sexual assault is decreasing as it should not exist at all. Nonetheless, this decline is awesome. Let's keep up the fight.
Much love,
Stephanie K
PS: I also just read this story about Indian farmers in debt that give their wives to their lenders, essentially making sexual violence permissible. It's disturbing how a woman's body can be used as a form of payment. The story's here: http://www.usnews.com/blogs/erbe/2009/10/23/halting-violence-against-women-in-india-and-elsewhere-a-win-win.html
US Senate's Response to Backlog of Rape Kit Evidence
While this bill is a move in the right direction to minimize this backlog of rape kit evidence, will it be enough? Rather than outlining penalties for states that do not eliminate the backlog, the act offers monetary incentives to states that can reduce the amount by 50%. I do not think that this sends a strong enough message that rape is a serious and pervasive problem throughout our society that needs to be stopped. In addition, the bill is only now being reviewed by the committee--a stage that many bills and resolutions will never move forward from.
What are your thoughts on the backlog of evidence or the nation's response to it?
-Lindsay
Thursday, November 26, 2009
What I'm thankful for...
Precious (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5FYahzVU44) tells the story of a sixteen year old girl in the seventh grade and pregnant for the second time with her biological father's baby. She suffers from physical and emotional abuse by her mother, she is on welfare, and she cannot read above a second grade level. Clareece "Precious" Jones's story is based on the novel Push by Sapphire and is a fictional one - just like Victor Barrenechea's THE RAPE TUNNEL (http://www.artlurker.com/2009/09/the-rape-tunnel-by-sheila-zareno/), where Barrenechea, in his "apparent" stroke of art blogging genius, conceptualizes a criticism of modern art by using sexualized violence as his platform. In Barrenechea's fabricated exhibition, his fictional artist, Richard Whitehurst, intends to literally rape every person who walks down his rape tunnel: "I’m not necessarily concerned with the positive or negative effects of this project so long as there is some effect on people’s lives. I’ve merely set up a situation where there is potential to impact people in meaningful ways." Meaningful, huh?
As I said before, both stories are fictional - but I'm thankful for them nonetheless. Initially, I felt pure hatred in watching Precious and reading about THE RAPE TUNNEL. I felt like they were so awful and twisted that neither of them could reflect reality. But here's the thing - while these stories are fictional, there are millions of people with stories just like Precious and million more like Victor Barrenechea who think rape is a joke. We should feel angry about these realities - and even angrier that they exist together as one sick contradiction: the frequency of sexualized violence together with the humor and insensitivity of it!
Part of me takes ownership for this contradiction. Surely, I didn't make people think and behave this way. I cannot change the minds of people like Victor Barrenechea in one day, or even one lifetime - and I cannot change the lives of people like Precious in even several lifetimes. But I can take ownership of it because if I stopped pointing fingers at the abusers and the politicians and the bad role models who contribute to this reality, stopped alienating and marginalizing myself from all of the people whom I consider colluders of this reality; rather, I started listening to them, understanding them, and finally thinking with them as a whole rather than clashing as individual parts in a society bent on disagreement, maybe it could start the right dialogue to ending these violent trends and insensitivity.
This wasn't the bashing that I had hoped to do, but I guess I realized that I've been down the angry road before and what I thought would come out of it, didn't.
So today, I'm thankful for Precious and THE RAPE TUNNEL because, in a twisted way, they've helped me see a new future for ending sexualized violence and rape normalization. Go see them, and decide for yourself.
SAPAC love
Lilly
Monday, November 23, 2009
Rape is not a synonym for something else....
These statements can not only be triggering, but trivializing, and they just need to stop.
Here a youtube clip of some popular media outlets doing the same thing...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCY23hWWgRI
University of Maryland Student's PSA
Check it out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQGdJSMzADA
It's awesome to know that students all around the country are making the same effort to educate and inform their campus about sexual assault! Thanks so much, Shaina, and awesome job!
Crosby
Friday, November 20, 2009
NPA Continuing Education: Florida State Women's Basketball Team
promoting its team.
Their new website, http://www.seminolehoops.com/team1.shtml, highlights a picture of the team in formal attire showing a more feminine snapshot. Then by clicking on each
team member you are brought to an individual glamor picture either stepping out of a limo or leaning up against one.
The controversy about whether or not this is empowering or degrading remains unsolved. Does the femininity emphasize a pride and liberation to women or does it reinforce the idea that women must always fit into the beauty box?
-Lauren McIntosh
NPA Continuing Education: Sexual Assault in South Africa
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oZpuY97i_k
This link is to an anti-rape PSA by Charlize Theron was released in South Africa. In it the actress says she struggles with answering the question of what the men in South Africa are like because more women are raped in the country than any other country in the world and 1 in 3 women living there will be raped in their lifetime. She closes the ad saying that "it's not that easy to say what the men in South Africa are like, because there seem to be so few of them out there".
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/465639.stm
The second link is to a BBC article explaining the controversy around why the ad was taken off the air. Some men were offended by the ad, saying that it implied all South African men were rapists and/or unaffected bystanders with no opinion on the matter.
I can see their point. I can empathize with an upstanding and honorable father of 3 daughters watching this announcement and feeling hurt that he is being portrayed as a potential rapist by virtue of the combination of his gender and nationality. While raising awareness about sexual violence it is important not to alienate the strong allies waiting to be called upon in too often unexpected places. As feminists and defenders of survivors of sexual violence, I think we sometimes go too far and push away the men we so sorely need in the movement through unintentional insensitivity and the generalizations we fight so hard against when they pertain to women.
-Paige Tassie
NPA Continuing Ed
I recently read a book called the Road of Lost Innocence by: Somaly Mam. If anyone has time to read these days I would HIGHLY recommend it. The book is a true story about a young Cambodian girl who is sold into sexual slavery. It was horrifying to read everything that this woman had to go through, from the sexual abuse from her “uncle” to being sold to a brothel. It is amazing to me that things like this are going on in the world today. It was also terrifying to find out that the police are well aware of the situations and yet they let it continue, and even partake in it themselves. This story truly sent me on a roller coaster ride of emotions anywhere from sadness, to anger, amazement, and happiness. It was so inspirational to read the story of this woman who despite being through so much is still so strong. She was able to finally make it out of the sexual slavery she suffered for years and set up an organization to help get more girls out. The organizations started out small, in her own home, but have since grown. Below I have attached a link to the Somaly Mam Foundation’s website:
http://www.somaly.org/
This foundation not only rescues girls from brothels, it gives them a place to start over. The foundation offers the girls shelter, counseling, medical treatment, schooling, and classes in activities such as sewing. They do all this so that when it is time to leave the shelter, the girls have the confidence and the skills to rebuild their lives. It was a truly amazing and inspirational story. If you can’t read the book I urge you to at least look at the website. I hope that we may all be as courageous and loving as this woman, she is truly an inspiration to our cause.
SAPAC love,
Renee Muller

